Where to go?
I read an interesting piece in the NY Times last week -- Where Can the Doctor Who’s Guided All the Others Go for Help?. Interesting because of the conclusions about where psychiatrists can go for help themselves.
I often encounter the assumption among people I know that all therapists have been in therapy. Very few of them know that it is not a requirement in most training programs -- analytic training being the exception -- and in some, it is actually discreetly frowned upon. So for starters it is not reasonable to assume that a given therapist has ever been in therapy himself. And of course there is the question of what constitutes therapy anyway? Is what Paul did with Gina in Season 1 of In Treatment therapy? Is his short time with her in season 2? Is a brief course of solution focused therapy enough for someone who will be dealing day in and day out with the issues and lives of others? All good questions.
One psychiatrist quoted in the column --
“In my situation, it would be difficult to find someone,” Dr. Dan Buie, a beloved senior analyst in Boston, told me. It is not that psychiatrists aren’t waiting in wing chairs all over the city. It is that so many of them are former students and former patients. One generation of psychiatrists grows the next through teaching and treatment.
Surrendering that professional identity to become a patient reverses a kind of natural order. “You can’t be a simple patient,” Dr. Buie said. “Anyone I’d go to, I’ve known.” To avoid it, some travel to other cities for therapy (probably passing colleagues in trains heading in the other direction).
There is also the factor of experience. It is one thing if my internist is younger than I; she is closer to the bones of medicine, and with any luck we can get to know each other for years before serious illness requires more intimate contact. It is another thing if my therapist is younger than I.
“It would be a big mistake not to turn to someone,” Dr. Buie went on, “but I might have some trouble going to younger colleagues. It’s hard to understand the issues that come up in the course of a life cycle unless you’ve lived it yourself.”
Interesting to see the assumption that a psychiatrist could only see another psychiatrist. Not someone who is known as an excellent therapist, but a psychiatrist. Though it seems to me an obvious choice to look to someone outside of one's own professional circle in order to bypass this particular obstacle. Yet it is not mentioned in the article as a possibility.
Or an analyst trained in psychoanalysis might choose to see a Jungian. Or a Jungian to see a Freudian or even an Adlerian. Why must the therapist chosen be of the same theoretical persuasion?
Excellence as a therapist is not a function of the degree the therapist practices under. It is a function of talent, devotion, ongoing study and supervision, personal work, personality and a host of other qualities. There is nothing in the training of a psychologist or psychiatrist or any other variety of therapist which leads to one being better than another. That training is the ticket to entry into the field and it is only after entering that the real work of becoming a therapist, in the best and deepest sense of the word, begins.





